For parents

Play & games that help your child grow

Play is how children learn. Here are 20 simple games you can start today — no special equipment, just everyday things around the house — to gently build your child’s skills through fun.

Illustration of a child playing with a toy

These are gentle, everyday play ideas to support your child — wonderful for every family, and no substitute for assessment or therapy if you’re worried. Follow your child’s lead, keep it light, and stop while it’s still fun.

Games that build talking & words

Simple ways to draw out first words, new vocabulary and longer sentences — through fun, not pressure.

More home speech activities

Ready, set… go!

You’ll need: A ball, car or anything that moves

Build suspense with “ready, set…” and pause. Wait for your child to say (or attempt) “go!” before you roll or release it.

Builds: Anticipation, turn-taking and a first powerful word.

Peekaboo & hiding games

You’ll need: A scarf, cloth or your hands

Hide a toy under a cloth and say “where’s teddy? … there he is!”. Let your child reveal it and react with delight.

Builds: Object permanence, joint attention and early words.

Choices, not questions

You’ll need: Two snacks or two toys

Hold up both and ask “apple or banana?”. Give your child time — even a look or point counts, then say the word back.

Builds: Expressive language and back-and-forth communication.

Silly sabotage

You’ll need: Any familiar routine

Put a shoe on your hand, or “forget” to open the yoghurt. Your child will want to protest or fix it — a great reason to communicate!

Builds: Motivation to talk, problem-solving and requesting.

Games that build listening & understanding

Playful ways to grow the words your child understands and their ability to follow what you say.

Receptive vs expressive language

Simon says (gentle version)

You’ll need: Just you

Give one-step then two-step instructions — “touch your nose”, then “touch your nose and jump”. Keep it silly and fun.

Builds: Listening, following instructions and body awareness.

Treasure hunt

You’ll need: A few favourite toys

Hide toys and give clues — “find the one under the chair”. Increase the clue length as they get better.

Builds: Understanding directions, positions and vocabulary.

Sound detective

You’ll need: Everyday household sounds

Close your eyes and guess sounds together — a tap running, keys jingling, a spoon on a cup.

Builds: Listening attention and linking sounds to meaning.

Games that build motor skills

Fun ways to strengthen the big whole-body movements and small hand movements children need every day.

Gross vs fine motor skills

Posting box

You’ll need: A box and bottle lids or coins

Cut a slot in a box and let your child post lids through it. Make the slot smaller as they improve.

Builds: Fine motor control, grip and hand-eye coordination.

Animal walks

You’ll need: Open floor space

Crawl like a bear, hop like a frog, waddle like a penguin across the room together.

Builds: Core strength, balance and gross motor planning.

Tear & stick

You’ll need: Old paper and glue

Tear paper into pieces and stick them to make a picture. Messy and brilliant for little hands.

Builds: Finger strength, pincer grip and creativity.

Threading

You’ll need: Dry pasta and a shoelace

Thread pasta tubes onto a lace to make a necklace. A calm, focused fine-motor workout.

Builds: Two-handed coordination and concentration.

Games that build social skills & turn-taking

Play that grows sharing, waiting, joining in and reading other people — the roots of friendship.

Building social skills at home

Roll the ball

You’ll need: A ball, sitting on the floor

Sit facing each other and roll the ball back and forth, saying “my turn… your turn” each time.

Builds: Turn-taking, joint attention and shared enjoyment.

Feelings faces

You’ll need: A mirror or just your faces

Take turns making happy, sad, surprised and cross faces, and naming the feeling.

Builds: Emotional understanding and reading expressions.

Simple board games

You’ll need: Any snakes-and-ladders style game

Play together with lots of “your turn!”, waiting and cheering — winning is not the point.

Builds: Waiting, following rules and coping with losing.

Games that build attention & focus

Short, motivating games that gently stretch how long your child can focus — a little at a time.

Activities to build attention & focus

Beat the timer

You’ll need: A phone timer

Set a short, achievable time and finish a small task together before it beeps. Celebrate, then stretch the time.

Builds: Sustained attention and task completion.

Matching pairs

You’ll need: Pairs of cards or socks

Turn cards face down and take turns finding matching pairs from memory.

Builds: Focus, working memory and turn-taking.

Freeze dance

You’ll need: Music

Dance while the music plays and freeze when it stops. Great for children who need to move to focus.

Builds: Listening, impulse control and self-regulation.

Games that help a child stay calm

Soothing, sensory play for children who get easily overwhelmed — to help their bodies feel calm and regulated.

Sensory processing difficulty

Calm-down jar

You’ll need: A bottle, water and glitter or beads

Shake it and watch the pieces slowly settle together, breathing slowly as they fall.

Builds: Self-regulation and a calming focus point.

Heavy work helpers

You’ll need: Household chores

Let your child carry the laundry basket, push a box or “help” move cushions. Deep-pressure work is naturally calming.

Builds: Sensory regulation and body awareness.

Blanket burrito

You’ll need: A blanket

Gently roll your child up snugly in a blanket (face always out) for cosy, calming deep pressure.

Builds: Calming proprioceptive input and comfort.

Looking for the right toys to help your child? Not sure which skills to focus on? Try our 3-question guide, or read about the importance of play in development.

Take the first step

Want games chosen just for your child?

In therapy, we tailor play to exactly what your child needs next. Message us and we’ll show you how — and give you ideas to try at home.

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